(#7) What I Learned Through Hurt & Heartbreak in Relationships

This episode is personal and I share openly about what I learned in the last year about hurt and pain that happens in relationships- family, romantic, friends.

One of my favourite quotes is by CS Lewis and he talks about love and heartbreak. 

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”